Post by Dub on Dec 22, 2016 18:21:29 GMT
1) My girlfriend had sex with a friend. This makes me angry and jealous because she let somebody be with her for purely sexual reason. So how could it be special to me? Or vice versa?
2) This comes back to me because somehow I feel less special. The fact that she let somebody else have her without even being together makes our sex less special. I can't be special because she was willing to let somebody have her that wasn't even with her. If she just let that happen, how can I be special to her?
3) Jealous thoughts like that are irrational. One, because it's in the past. Two, because she has sexual needs too, just like I did. Three, our sex is special because love is involved. She is not an object and she was not used as one. She wanted it too. Fortunately, she finds me special enough to only want it with me ever again.
2) This comes back to me because somehow I feel less special. The fact that she let somebody else have her without even being together makes our sex less special. I can't be special because she was willing to let somebody have her that wasn't even with her. If she just let that happen, how can I be special to her?
3) Jealous thoughts like that are irrational. One, because it's in the past. Two, because she has sexual needs too, just like I did. Three, our sex is special because love is involved. She is not an object and she was not used as one. She wanted it too. Fortunately, she finds me special enough to only want it with me ever again.